It's a Winn-Winn situation at Eastern Oregon University this
fall.
John, 40, and Debbie Winn, 39, are not your typical college
students, nor your typical in-a-rut adult. They are among about
seven non-traditional students in the 46-member EOU Chamber Choir
that is giving a concert Friday ranging from Bach to Broadway.
But age is not the Winns' only distinction; size of family is.
The Winns have six kids ranging in age from 15 to 3.
That's a lot of bedtime stories.
Debbie Winn started back to college full time in the fall of
2001, and John Winn joined her on campus in the spring of 2002. Both
are now juniors, Debbie a music and vocal performance major and John
a double major in business accounting and musical performance.
"The first couple of weeks were a huge culture shock," John
recalls. "Here I am in these classes with 60 to 70 kids all 18 and
19 years old. That first quarter even all the professors were
younger than me."
Debbie, too, finds college challenging, and rewarding.
"My focus is totally different than it was 20 years ago," she
says. "I'm more serious about studying, and want to learn everything
I can."
Occasionally, the former stay-at-home mom feels guilty sitting in
class enjoying a lecture or discussion when she hears motherhood
calling. But she knows returning to school gives her children a
vision for their future.
One fear the "Nunsense" actress had was the younger students
would see her as a surrogate mom.
"I didn't want to be everybody's mom (at school)," she says, as
nurturing her own kids is a big enough challenge.
Now college is an experience for the whole family. Often, the
Winn kids serve as ushers for concerts or guinea pigs for classes
like vocal methods.
John had gone to college for a year after high school and then
launched into a career in sales. This is the first college
experience for Debbie.
One question they are asked frequently is, How do they manage
financially?
"We asked ourselves that question at first." But after the Winns
talked to the counseling office and filled out the financial aid
forms they were confident their dream could become a reality.
Through financial aid — grants, loans, scholarships — grit,
determination and help from the kids with chores at home, they have
managed.
"The biggest thing that stops most people is not logistics but
fear," John observes. "Can we stand up as adults, face our
inadequacies and try something new. We try to instill the same thing
in our children" — the confidence to pursue dreams.
John began schooling in business, in his comfort zone. Later,
feeling less than fully challenged, he launched into the campus
music world because that curriculum would be the most personally
broadening.
But going back to school is just part of the adventure. As part
of her studies, Debbie plans an exchange trip through AHA
International's study-abroad program this fall to Vienna, Austria.
Some people have questioned how she can do that and raise six kids
too.
But the Winns believe the trip will be enriching for the whole
family.
"Whatever helps her become a rounded person helps the family,"
John says.
The couple are also eagerly anticipating the chamber choir's
spring break 2004 trip to Ecuador, where chamber choir director
Peter Wordelman taught on a Fulbright Scholarship. The trip will
include not only the choir but also members of the Grande Ronde
Community Chorus and other community members, similar to the 2001
trip to Europe.
After graduation, the Winns hope to open a music conservatory in
La Grande to offer lessons in voice and piano and give community
members a chance to pursue their musical dreams.
"A lot of the (EOU) students want to become teachers but don't
have a lot of opportunities to give lessons and gain other needed
experience," Debbie says.
Whatever the future holds for the Winns, you can bet there won't
be a rut in sight.